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Living in Phnom Penh: It’s Mid-March!

I was browsing my blog last night and it suddenly occurred to me, I had been posting mostly photos the past few months and writing less and less. Sigh. So much for trying to use this blog to practice writing. One of the main reasons I post a whole load of photos is that I’m obsessed with taking snapshots and I have this little belief that my photos share a better story than I do.

But this isn’t exactly how I envisioned my blog to be. And I have to slowly steer myself to writing more, at least alternate the photos with some articles and stories about living in Cambodia.

Right now I wanna get on with my weeky random ramblings..

  • Cambodia is now getting sooo hot. It’s scorching hot that I rarely venture out because I always get migraines because of the heat. And were just in mid-March, my husband reckons it’ll be hotter in April. And that just scares me.
  • I’m doing a bit of window shopping for some jewelry. My mom fancies some gold chains and we figured we’d gift her with some, if the quality and the price is right. Has anyone of you had any experience buying gold from those shops near Central Market? I also checked out some shops in Russian Market for made-to-order jewelry, but I’m scared about making a mistake and buying some fakes. I don’t know much about jewelry and I doubt I ever will know much. It’s just not an interest with me. But I want to have some nice ones for my mom so..
  • I’ve been receiving a lot of emails from readers and I love interacting with them, and answering questions that I can.  Majority of them are very nice folks and its just makes me doubly passionate about blogging knowing that there are indeed a few people who reads this blog.
  • Among those who email me, there are also those I find very rude. Some demand information from me  (usually about traveling to Cambodia) without so much as a please. I am NOT a travel agency and while I take pleasure in answering emails or tweets with tips on traveling, please be mindful of your manners too. I find it disgruntling when I receive an email demanding me to book a hotel or send them a hotel address.I would gladly help out with recommendations but please ask nicely. And it’ll be nice too if you learn how to use Google.
  • I’m getting busy planning trips. April is my daughter’s birthday and it falls on a holiday. So we are planning going somewhere. She and (both me and hubby too) are not big on parties and during birthdays, we usually travel to someplace where we could enjoy being together and have some relaxation time. I’m looking up some hotels and let’s see where we end up.
  • Were also going to the Philippines in June for my father’s 1st death anniversary (how time flies..) and as of now we have plans to also spend a few days in Malaysia. My daughter is itching to go up Petronas. I wonder why when it really just makes me feel queasy. Last time I went there, I went running to the bathroom the moment the ‘tour’ was over. Lol. But since she seems really interested, we’ll brave it again. Then after a few days we’ll fly to Manila. Going back we’ll be trying the Manila-Siem Reap, Cebu Pacific direct flight.
  • And uh, its my birthday this weekend. Yay! I’m getting older and yes, more fabulous. Choz! Hahaha. My plans? Hubby wanted to go somewhere to celebrate, but moi? I want to stay here in Phnom Penh, eat a lot of steak, have a total spa pampering (scrub, wrap, massage, sauna–the works!). And my birthday wish is not to do any chores for two whole days. I’ll miss scrubbing the bathroom if its more than 2 days, noh?
Siem Reap Fish Massage
  • I miss having fish massage. I just had one a week ago in Siem Reap. It’s a totally weird experience but maybe I fancy being tickled while drinking a can of cold soda. Lol. And WOW! my legs and feet look humongous! They are NOT really like that in real life. Hahaha.

Living in Phnom Penh: A Walk in The Park

Ooops. I’ve been missing my regular living in Phnom Penh posts! Lately I’ve been posting mostly just Cambodia Snapshots and Khmer food photos. I do still have my blogging mojo, but I was simply preoccupied with lots of things. Mainly mommy and wifey things. Priorities :) . I have also been reviving some old blogs and finally I have some spare time now so I would be posting some snippets of our life in Phnom Penh.

For the past few weeks, I had been obsessing on getting fit. I spend a lot of my time tinkering with the computer since I work online so I don’t want to spend some spare time staring at the idiot box or playing on a tablet pc, so I decided I should give myself some love and be fit. I considered enrolling in a gym, but I think that is not for me. I’ve tried that before when I was in the Philippines but I always end up not going. Enrolling in a fitness class is also a no go for me coz I prefer to have a flexible schedule. So I decided to get fit on my own. I started with weekend early morning walks. Now, I jog/walk 4-5 times per week. I do my jogging in the parks , which thankfully Phnom Penh has a lot of. I could walk in the streets but for safety reasons, hubby told me to just walk in the park, I’m the queen of klutz, you see so I could understand his point.

So this has become a routine for us. During the weekends we usually go to the Vietnamese-Cambodian Friendship Park in Sothearos. They have a big free play area for kids so the kiddo can play till she drops and hubby and I can do our brisk walking around the park.

Phnom Penh parks

Phnom Penh Parks

During weekdays, after I send off the kiddo to school and hubby is off to work, I jog around Hun Sen Park. A couple of rounds on that huge park is really exhilarating. Plus you get awesome scenery and this is also an interesting place to do some people watching. See? The photo below was taken during my walk this morning. Lovely, isn’t it?

Phnom Penh Parks

Sigh. This is what I love about living in Phnom Penh. It’s a simple and good life. You still get to enjoy things for free.

Cambodia Snapshots: Happy Khmer Kids

cambodia snapshots

Pursat Province, Tree Planting

This snapshot was taken on a trip to Pursat Province. They are happy participants to a tree planting and clean up activity. For some reason, I find this shot adorable and just shows the infectious happiness of the kids. Cambodia has a lot of wonderful, beautiful sites, temples and all. But from what I’ve seen, nothing really comes up to the genuine and warm smiles that Khmers have for everyone.

This country has made me realize a lot about life. Sure, the Khmers lack a lot of what the ‘modern’ more developed countries have, but they made me re-think about how important these materials things are. They made me ask, how come they are happy without those things? These kids have very little else going on for them, but their happiness is palpable. I wish we could give smiles as genuine as that. Like they have been let loose in a Happy Easter store and told to pick out anything they want.

There might be a lot of setbacks in life, but life itself is worth celebrating..

Pinas In a While..

Back to posting! It just feels weird for me not to update this blog even for just a couple of days. In any case, I’m not abandoning the blog. I’m simply on a ‘vacation’. How I wish this is one of those leisurely vacations, where I could just count
challenge coins, eat a lot, have a massage and just walk about a new and exciting place.

My father is sick and I simply cannot stay and wait for news. So my husband and I have decided I’ll fly home and stay in the Philippines for a few weeks at least to help my mom and also I’d like to be given the chance to take care of my father. I know its a tough task but I could only remember how he has sacrificed a lot for us and at the very least I want to show my endless gratitude by being there when he is in pain.

I think everyone goes through something as painful as seeing a parent sick and almost coming to an end. I don’t want life to end for anyone but who am I to say life cannot end. In the end, we have to accept things. I can only wish that he won’t suffer too much pain because seeing it just breaks me. It’s also tough seeing my mom deal with it so I have to be here at least to lend some support. There’s still a tough road ahead, so please pray for my dad and also for my mom.

I hate being melancholic when I post something, but this is exactly how I feel right now. I’m sad, but grateful too because now I realize that really there are people who are there to support us.

Itching To Be Somewhere…

It suddenly hit me. I haven’t been out of Phnom Penh for a few months already! Lol! I guess because hubby was not here, and I was too preoccupied with things and life in general. I was just browsing a travel site coz Ouwie and I are planning on going on a holiday next year, was also checking out outer banks nc rentals, and I suddenly feel like, Yeah! I really wanna go somewhere soon.

Last time I talked to hubby about travel plans, we had been discussing going to some place during Christmas or right after New Years. Where? I have no idea. Ratanakiri and Battambang Cambodia, Ho Chi Minh, and Bangkok are the places were toying visiting. For now, I’m really itching to go to Ratanakiri. Compared to the others, it’s someplace I haven’t visited yet and also the ‘nature’ theme is having a really strong appeal to me right now, having been stuck in the city for months already.

Hmm, which place to go? I do deserve a holiday you know.. Should I just draw lots?

Almost 3!

2010 is almost ending and its almost time again to say hello to a new year! Hmm, there is really truth to the adage that time really flies. And this morning I was looking at this blog, browsing old posts, and I cant help but sigh. A smorgarsbord. Lol! That’s what I have created here.

I love this blog to bits. Its started out as just something to drop my random thoughts on. Observations on lifestyle, snippets of our daily lives, till it evolved into something showing how life is for us here in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. I know I’m not a stellar writer but I’m quite happy how this site has turned out.

For one I never imagined that a few readers would be able to connect with me. I mean, when I started it out, at the back of my mind, there was always this doubt that who would really want to read about our life? Our experiences? Surprisingly, there are a few who reads and I’ve received dozens of emails asking about this and that, readers taking an interest. And for a blogger like me, that is something really to celebrate!

It’s also pleasing to hear that some of my posts actually were able to help others. I think knowing that is one of the most gratifying aspects I discovered about personal blogging. And of course, through this blog, I met a lot of people. Some actually became some of my best friends. How cool can blogging get?

This blog has also helped me through a lot. Specially when dealing with homesickness. When I was still trying to get into grips about living away from home and adapting to another culture, I would constantly suffer from home sickness. And I found myself gravitating towards the keyboard and pounding on the keys. It was like a great relief, like having a real thorough colon cleansing session. It has become some sort of therapy for me..

Anyway, I’m waxing on about this because I got an email from my domain registrar telling me that, Hey! You’ve got to renew your domain! Which led me to think that, Oh!!! My!! This blog is almost three years old already! Should I throw a party? Nahh. I’m not really a party person, so I’ll just settle on gifting myself with a gadget for all the ‘hard’ (hihi not really) work.

Lilypie Third Birthday tickers

But now that I think about it, it might be a good idea. I might come up with a contest or whatever and have some freebie coming your way..=) If you’ve got suggestions, email me or drop a comment.